The Wealth Drain: Are You Wasting Your Hard-Earned Retirement?
By Zach Lundak | April 25, 2026
Nobody enters retirement planning to throw money away, yet I see it constantly. It usually isn't a single "bad" purchase that does the damage; it’s a series of misaligned choices in mindset and strategy.
Let’s break down the top ways people waste money in retirement and how to fix your focus. You can also watch my video on this topic here.
1. The Mindset Trap: "Die With Zero" vs. "The Fortress"
The biggest "wealth leak" starts between your ears. Most retirees fall into one of two camps, and taking either to an extreme can lead to waste.
The "Die With Zero" Group
Popularized by Bill Perkins’ book Die With Zero, this mindset is about maximizing utility. In economics, utility is essentially a substitute for happiness. The goal is to squeeze every drop of enjoyment out of your assets while you are alive rather than leaving a massive pile to heirs who might just spend it on cars and vacations.
The Waste Risk: This can lead to over-consumption. You may end up spending on products or services that don't actually yield the "utility" or happiness you hoped for simply because you feel you must spend it.
The "Fortress Balance Sheet" Group
This group focuses on legacy and peace of mind. This mindset is very prevalent in the Midwest. They want to be able to withstand any global calamity with a 100% chance of success.
The Waste Risk: This mindset risks "under-investing" in memories, services, or experiences. You may waste your healthiest years being "cheap" and missing out on an incredible non-financial return on investment.
The Takeaway: Identify which camp you naturally fall into and pull yourself back from the edge. If you try to live the opposite mindset, you'll likely be miserable and waste money in the process.
2. Overpaying for "Bundled" Services
In retirement, many people over-consume 1% Assets Under Management (AUM) financial services.
While this fee provides massive value for some, it often bundles two very different things: Asset Management and Financial Planning. If you are a DIY index fund investor, you likely have the asset management part handled. Paying a full 1% for something you already do well is a significant drain on your portfolio.
Zach’s Rule: If you are over 60, do not waste money (or your health) by getting on a ladder. Hire someone for those home services.
3. The "Delayed Joy" Car Conflict
When you are young, cars are a depreciating waste of money. Many people build their millions by being disciplined and avoiding nice cars for decades.
The problem? That "discipline muscle" is hard to turn off in retirement. I see retirees who love cars but refuse to buy a Range Rover or a Ferrari even though they can easily afford it. If you love cars, not buying one is a waste of your retirement utility. You’ve earned the right to realize that a "cool car" won't break your plan.
4. Wasting the Only Asset You Can't Regain: Time
The biggest waste in retirement is spent watching the "Entertainment News".
Now that you are retired, your job has shifted from "worker" to "capital allocator". Your job is to invest your money wisely.
The Problem: Most news is designed to capture your attention for ad dollars, not to make you a better investor.
The Fix: Balance the noise by reading books or listening to podcasts about history. Understanding how we survived difficult periods in the past provides the perspective you need to be a better steward of your capital.
At Barrett FP LLC, we believe your retirement shouldn't just be about surviving; it should be about maximizing your life.
Ready to stop the waste and start allocating your time and capital with purpose? See if we’re a good fit.